Mistress T’s blog is always entertaining to read, but her last couple of posts have been particularly intriguing. The first was a list of qualities she looked for in a potential mate and an invitation for any guys who matched up to email her. This struck me as a post likely to attract both attention and a wide range of responses. As Mistress Eleise de Lacy recently wrote and I’ve posted on in the past, the online dating story for dominant women is not a pretty one. I’m sure that it’s only a small fraction of men that ruin it for the rest of us. However, with 3 billion men in the world, even if only 1% are interested in dominant women, and only 1% of those are idiots, that’s still 300,000 socially challenged males to deal with.
I was fully expecting to see a follow-up post where Mistress T tried to inject a little reality into the responses. Something along the lines of – “200 lbs and 5’5″ does not equal fairly fit. Please stop sending me cock shots. A job as drummer for a Winger cover band does not equally financially secure, particularly if you’re still living in your parent’s basement. I am very sure that the act of fucking you will not suddenly turn me monogamous. And seriously, enough with the cock shots.”
Sure enough, there was a follow-up post, which mentioned the record amount of feedback the original post generated. However,what really amazed me was that some guys thought the criteria she laid out was too strict. I’m slightly surprised that anyone would think that, as it’s a very reasonable list of requirements. I’m even more surprised that some guys would be self-critical enough to understand that they didn’t make the bar. After all doesn’t everyone think they’re smart, witty and great in bed? I mean I know I am, but a lot of other guys can be strangely delusional about stuff like that, poor chaps.
Sadly I live in Seattle, which looks close to Vancouver if you use an atlas and squint, but in reality is a few hours away via the joy of Interstate 5. On the plus side, this post does give me an excuse to feature a few pictures of Mistress T. The first two I picked for her very entertaining expressions. The last because she looks wonderful in it and it’s nice to feature something non-explicit or kinky now and again. You can see a lot more of her at her main site.
Oh, and the post title? Taken from this appropriate scene, in one of my favorite movies. Andie Macdowell is a tough woman to please.
Thank you for the nice write up!
An update…although I have received a lot of feedback, most supportive, I have only received a couple of actual applications. Nothing at all so far that looks like the right fit, no dates yet…after thousands and thousands of views!
Shocking, isn’t it?
Last night, out with friends I was explaining the situation and when I exclaimed that I’ve already been looking for 2-3 days (like I’ve been looking for years) everyone burst out laughing.
I guess it might take a little more time to find Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now? ha ha
xo
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No problem on the write up. Thanks for putting up all those interesting posts and photographs. I hope I send Mr. Right in your direction in return!
I’m a little surprised that you’ve not found even a single application that’s vaguely close yet. Vancouver is a decent sized city. It wasn’t like you were after a left handed brain surgeon who plays the violin and wrestles alligators in his spare time. I can imagine he might have taken at least a week to track down.
Anyway, if you’re ever passing through and Seattle and find yourself stuck on a Friday night, feel free to drop me a line. I can always help with the eating well bit! In the meantime, good luck with the search. Hope you can wrap it up in 4-5 days max 🙂
-paltego
I like your posts very much. Submissive like to talk about what in a photo attract or arouse them and what recoil them and this site feed such desire in me.
There is another topics which I like to read about in your posts because I like your taste and subtle reviews and this is to discuss which actress look dominant. I know there is no actress who show us her dominant side or tell the press about her pro-dominant life style but some of them have very dominant looks and poses or looks always dominant. here is an example:
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Thanks for the image links. I like the shots, they’ve an interesting feel to them. Definitely a bit of a domme vibe. And I’m glad you enjoy the blog, thanks for reading!
-paltego
Thanks too. I hope I read your review on such shots.
You know, it’s strange. I read the Must Love Dommes post, and for some reason, I just didn’t find myself saying, “Drat. Why couldn’t I be single and in Vancouver and be hung like a horse?” like I thought I would, but I’m having a hard time articulating why. Mistress T is obviously a stunning, cool, kinky woman.