My final kinky experience of my NYC trip was a session with Empress Wu. We had not played together before, so this was a getting to know each other exploratory scene. I’m always a fan of easing into new dynamics rather than trying to bounce off limits in the first hour or two. I’d rather leave buzzed, floaty and imaging how we could evolve in the future, rather than staggering out shell-shocked and wandering what the hell just happened.
One of the nice things about being somewhat omnivorous in my kinky appetites, and being lucky enough to play with different dommes, is the opportunity to do different types of scenes. I always try to skew towards activities dommes call out as favorites, and in Empress Wu’s case this gave us a really fun scene heavy in spitting, pissing, scentplay, breathplay, gagging and CBT. As a general rule, letting a domme riff on some of her preferred activities is never bad way to do a first scene, and that was certainly true here. It was a great scene and an ideal way to end my NYC trip.
One particularly interesting aspect was the breathplay we did. There was some of the ‘regular kind’ featuring smothering, hand to face and a plastic bag over the head. However, Empress Wu also did some breathing exercises that I’d typically associate more with yoga or meditation. She talked me through breathing patterns, allowing me just to sit and be in the moment, following her voice. That’s really unusually in a pro-domme session – a first for me – and it was a really interesting dynamic. I was floaty from the more intense physical play we’d done, still in a D/s mindset, and it was almost hypnotic to follow her voice and try to let my thoughts go.
We didn’t shoot too many photographs, but I did think this was a fun one featuring a bit gag and some nipple clamps. Bit gags are always good for drooling and the chain pulling the head down just enhances that.
This rather striking selfie shot was from Empress Wu’s twitter feed. If you’re in the New York area and would like to schedule a professional session, then her site is here. For anyone further afield, then you can subscribe to her OnlyFans here.
Breathplay is without a doubt one of those kinks that divides kinksters into two camps, I for one do enjoy it. But that aside and back to the real reason for my comment — you may (or may not) have heard about the film Dogs don’t wear pants which, partly, revolves around asphyxiation. It’s a definitely not a mainstream piece but still an interesting take on the subject, and I’d love to hear you’re thoughts about it.
With kind regards from a follower of some +7 years or so.
Thanks for reading for so long. I appreciate that. Makes me think I must be doing something right 🙂
I have heard of that film – http://www.femdom-resource.com/2019/07/03/dogs-dont-wear-pants/ – but I’ve not seen it yet. I’m not sure if it’s on any of the streaming platforms I have access to. I am keeping my eye out for it, and a review will definitely show up here should I get chance to watch it.
-paltego
How could I have missed that post! Feel a bit ashamed now… But nonetheless, I’ve enjoyed reading your blog and recommended it to quite a few people. Thank you for taking the time to answer to my comment.
(And sorry for the typo (you’re-> your), autocorrect can be a nuisance sometimes.)
Absolutely don’t feel bad about missing that post. I read a bunch of different blogs, and there’s not one that I’d be 100% confident I read every single post on.
Glad you’ve enjoyed the site so far. And actually thanks for the reminder on that film. It should be due to pop up somewhere on a mainstream streaming service soon. I need to look out for it. That and the Duke of Burgundy are in my list of must see kinky movies.
Thanks again,
-paltego