This problem page letter in the Guardian made me smile. It’s somewhat short on detail but, reading between the lines, I suspect the man concerned was looking for hot kinky sex involving bondage and exciting leather outfits. His wife obviously had other ideas. On being handed the metaphorical and possibly literal whip hand, she decided that being in charge meant lots of nice massages and minimal amounts of sucking his dick. I feel bad that their kinky needs are obviously not aligned, but he probably shouldn’t be too surprised that his non-kinky wife’s idea of taking charge looked less like a pornhub video and more like a spa day.
I guess it could be worse for him. His wife might decide that what she really wants to do is spend an hour or two with the Sunday papers and a convenient footstool.
Sadly I don’t have a source for this image. I suspect it’s from a UK femdom site from some years back, but my attribution skills have failed me.
Did you notice that the “Counsellor” was Pamela Stephenson
Connolly Is Billy Connolly’s wife
Yes. I noticed that. I’ve always been a big fan of Billy Connolly and the fact they’ve been happily married for so long always cheers me up. Interesting career she’s had from Not The Nine O’Clock News to Psychologist and counselor. I think she’s now also Lady Connolly, now he’s been knighted :-).
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This article reminded me of Bitchy Jones; I know she has had at least a few posts on guys expecting dommes to be dressed in boots and leather, when all she wanted was a massage and a glass of wine.
Yes, there’s definitely that sense to it. Guys don’t just want a domme but the right kind of domme with the right kind of interests. Don’t we all?
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