Shopping Trip

I’m taking a few days vacation in the warmth of southern California. Food, kink and shopping is the plan. Although not necessarily in that order or with that priority. I’m looking forward to playing again, as I haven’t got my ass kicked recently.

I’ll also be doing some clothes shopping and trying to resist the urge to buy more sports coats. I already have far more than the casual vibe of the West Coast demands.

Sadly for me, I doubt my shopping will be half as fun as this artwork by Strikt looks. I like the idea of her parking him by the dressing room and having assistants drape various items over him as she picks and chooses. He slowly gets buried under the garments as she bounces back and forth between options. Sort of a combined clothes rack and credit card transportation device.

You can find more of Srikt’s excellent artwork, along with the original fullsize version of this drawing, on his Bluesky feed. He’s also open to commissions.

Maid on Top

I’ve published a few maid themed posts over recent weeks. Here’s another one but with a twist. In these drawings it’s the maid in the dominant role and her employer Alex whose getting bullied in all sorts of fun ways.

The artist here Eudetenis with the works commissioned by Femboy Alex Comms. There’s actually a whole series of these works posted to their twitter feed. For example, here, here, here and here. Plus, other equally fun work by other talented artists. I’m sad it’s on Twitter, but if you can get over that, Alex’s feed is worth checking out.

 

More Dogs

Heavy bondage pet play scenes featuring automated electronic milking machines are a bit like buses. You don’t see one forever and then two show up all at once.

Yesterday’s post was a fixed in place set-up. The one I spotted today – courtesy of this Twitter post by afterdarkamanda – adds mobility and a clever looking waist mounted milker. At first I thought it was too clever to be real and might be AI, but there’s a couple of videos (other here or here) and they seem real enough. The remorseless and inescapable milker makes for a very hot set-up. One could imagine a remote control option for a domme would be a lot of fun. Perform your doggy tricks properly and she’ll maybe turn it on for a minute or two. Or maybe, that’s the way you get it turned off.

Screenshot taken from Amanda Latex’s video (aka afterdarkamanda).

Milking the Dog

I’m a big fan of the objectification this set-up creates. The heavy and full coverage dog suit is dehumanizing – and therefore hot – in its own right. The suspension bondage reduces agency still further. The motorized milking machine will drag a specific reaction from his body whether he likes it or not. The fact he can helplessly flail those stubby limbs around but change nothing makes for a lovely finishing touch.

The creator of this scene is Mistress Hinako and she posted this along with a short video to her Twitter feed. As she says there – ‘I wake up early every morning to milk my dog’.

Capricious Corporations

Tumblr seems to be in an odd spot these days. I don’t really understand what its plan or target market is.

It was originally famous for hosting a large amount of erotic imagery. That was a business model that pushed their worth over 1 billion dollars. Then there was the purge of adult content which predictably destroyed their user base and left them a cultural irrelevance. Now a lot of porn seems to have sneaked back but it doesn’t seem welcome and sites get randomly blown up. Some will post erotic content for years without issue. Others, with similar content, are wiped after a few weeks.

Are they actually trying to block porn and just really suck at it? Or are they trying to use it to attract users and just randomly blowing sites up to maintain the fiction they don’t want it? Or do they tolerate it until the bandwidth of a particular site becomes too high? It’s really hard to fathom their plan.

This image is from the purebeautyandstyle tumblr – last updated 10 years ago!

More Maids

My previous post on cleaning and maids reminded me of this prior post on the fantasy of maidbots. Checking out the linked authors from that piece it seems they’ve some new material available.

Maidbot Sally has a new story ‘Ancillarobophobia‘, featuring a young man forced to overcome his fear of electronic maidbots by becoming one for his family. As you might guess, things don’t go his way. No sex, but lots of objectification.

Michael1970 has an ongoing multipart visual story along similar lines. Less bot and more just regular maid however. It’s obviously built with AI art, but I find that less objectionable when someone is trying to use it as part of their creative process. It’s when all the creativity is left to the GPUs that it seems so pointless and sloppy.

This is the second panel from Michael1970’s story. You’ll need a DeviantArt login to see either work but they’re free and easy to create.

Cleaning

I was wondering today – as I surveyed the books, clothes and paperwork scattered across my apartment – if I should hire a pro-domme to clean it. Not in a direct, hands on sense of course. Instead, she could direct me to clean it. And when I say direct, I really mean to beat, bully, threaten and forcefully instruct me.

I like having a clean apartment. I like being consensually bullied by women. I just hate having to do actual cleaning. Maybe having a domme force me to scrub the shower and dust the skirting boards would kill two birds with one stone. I’d get both a kinky session and a clean apartment. And maybe a French maid’s outfit as an added bonus.

Of course, I could just hire an actual cleaner. But that’s far too sensible and obvious a solution.

This topic appropriate artwork is by the artist Bruth.

You can see more from this artist on Twitter and Instagram. They’re also open to commissions.

Working with Couples

Boston base pro-domme Jane Cockatrice has a thoughtful post up about working with a kinky couple and helping mentor them. The woman was interested in becoming  “…more confident in her dominance and learn how to create more intense experiences for both of them.”

I wouldn’t describe it as a ‘how to’ piece, but there are plenty of useful observations and wise words in there. For example…

Sometimes women become so focused on whether they are doing everything correctly that they don’t fully allow themselves to enjoy their dominance. They wonder whether they look dominant enough. They worry that their dirty talk isn’t perfect. They continuously monitor whether their partner is enjoying himself. They may feel responsible for producing his ideal fantasy while forgetting to notice what the experience feels like for them.

I think there’s an interesting balance to strike here from the submissive perspective. Obviously you never want to treat a domme as a kink dispensing machine. I always strive for sessions that have an organic and natural flow to them. One’s where the domme has the freedom to evolve as the mood takes her. On the other hand, you can also go to far in the other direction. The kind of sub who just says ‘Oh, do whatever you want Mistress!’ Dommes are not mind readers and guessing games don’t make good sessions.

I guess one could draw an analogy with collaborating over a painting. You can’t expect someone to be creative if you give them a paint by numbers picture and scrutinize every brush stroke. At the same time you can’t simply show up with a blank canvas and expect them to do all the work.

Image of Jane Cockatrice was sourced from her Bluesky feed. You can read more of her excellent blogging content on her professional site.

Exclusively Non-exclusive

If you hang out on sex worker social media – as I do, because, you know, hotness – you’ll occasionally hear mention of an exclusive arrangement. It’s pretty much what the name suggests. An agreement where the worker is temporarily exclusive to one client. As you’d expect, such a set-up typically costs a very large sum of money each month.

It’s an escort thing rather than a pro-domme thing. I guess a charitable interpretation would be that extremely wealthy people hire chefs, accountants and lawyers to work exclusively for them. Why not a sex worker? The less charitable version would be that people have odd ideas about sex and don’t like the idea of a woman having multiple partners.

It always makes me smile when I see it mentioned, because I have almost exactly the reverse fantasy. That is paying a hot sex worker to exclusively not have sex with me. She’d regularly show up, dressed to the nines, tell me at length about all the amazing sex she’s having with other people, then leave. Possibly delivering a swift kick to the balls as she exits stage left.

I guess there’s a touch of findom in there, but the fantasy is really more about the tease, denial and humiliation elements. They’re so much more fun than simple orgasms.

This Sardax image seemed an appropriate one to accompany the fantasy. You can find more from him on his site and twitter.