I’ve an open question to any dommes out there reading this: Do you enjoy having your feet licked, sucked and kissed? It’s pretty clear a lot of foot fetish guys enjoy doing this, but I’m never sure about it from the women’s perspective. I get foot massage as pleasant thing to receive (provided it’s done properly), but how about the traditional ‘worship’ that pops up in so much femdom porn? It doesn’t do much for me personally, but I’m curious how other people, particularly dommes see it.
From a purely submissive perspective it seems to be very much a male thing. Foot/shoe kissing as a sign of subservience and humility pops up in other varieties of kinky porn, as does things like boot blacking, but I can’t ever remember seeing shots of male or female doms having foot worship sessions with female subs.
I’m not sure exactly what the gentleman here is doing with his mouth, but he at least seems to be raising a smile. Tongue tickling her toes perhaps?
I do enjoy it, though I don’t like seeing someone lick the bottom of my shoes. I like to allow my sub to suck on my toes while he massages my feet.
Thanks for dropping by to comment. Interesting to hear in your case it’s enjoyed on both sides of the D/s equation. Sounds like you both get something out of that activity!
-paltego
I personally love to have my feet, boots and shoes orally serviced by my slave. It gives me a profound feeling of power over her and I consider it a luxury I deserve.
As for pictures of male or female doms having foot worship sessions with female subs; we found two examples (that come close) and gmailed ‘m to you last Friday evening.
Nice to hear you enjoy it so much! The shoe/boot worship often seems to work as an expression of power, where the feet worship often seems (to me anyway) more intimate.
Thanks for the emails and the photographs. I did get those and appreciate you taking the time to send them. I’m saving the F/f one for a future post!
-paltego
I referred this question to a Domme I know, who replied:
“Interesting. Well, you know I absolutely love it! Can’t get enough of it!
I’ve never done an official survey on the topic with dommes, but definitely heard a wide variety of comments on it from them. I suspect there’s an element of the time taken involved. The main complaint I’ve heard is the guys who want to do nothing else for an hour or more, which I can imagine getting pretty boring for the domme. Sounds like the domme you asked wouldn’t have had a problem with it though!
-paltego
Foot worship feels really intimate to me. I have a couple of erogenous zones in that region so a good foot worship session evinces reactions similar to more traditionally sexual oral ministrations. It’s not a scene I offer in my prosessions: I prefer to be aroused by what I’m doing to you, rather than what you do to me. Guess I’m dominant that way. 😉
Interesting perspective. I don’t pursue it in a session personally, but from casual chat with different dommes, I’ve heard several comments about offering it professionally but not finding it particularly exciting to do. Looks like your the flip side of that particular coin! Although I definitely understand why that is from your expression of the dynamic 🙂
-paltego
TBH the idea that a man can pay for intimate access to my body has always kinda squicked me. Even the idea that it’s “just my feet” doesn’t fly: why should my feet be more accessible than any other part of my body? As for other dommes not finding it exciting…I get that too. Really, foot worship is more often than not an objectification session. It’s more about the body part than the woman attached to it. Where’s the fun for the domme in that (other than counting the $$)?