My vacation got off to a fantastic start playing with Mistress Mara Mayhem. Whimpering, grunting, growling and snarling were all featured at some point. Possibly I also moaned, but only in a satisfied ‘hit me again’ type way.
I find there’s a really interesting tipping point in corporal play, and reaching it is very dependent on the skill of the domme. If the escalation is too rapid or the intensity changes too erratic then the stress of the situation overwhelms the other emotions. It becomes very hard to zone out and relax into more intense sensations when you’re constantly on edge about what’s about to happen. On the other hand is the escalation is smooth and well judged it’s much easier to let the endorphins take over. It’s the difference between pain alone and pain as part of the dynamic between me and the domme. Too much too early is actually counter-productive in terms of building to a satisfying level of shared intensity. Needless to say Mistress Mara judged it perfectly in this session.
Of course we didn’t just indulge in corporal. There was also a fair amount of CBT involved as shown in this dick pic snap. As is usual, the removal of the various clips and clamps hurt a lot more than the initial application. Fortunately Mistress Mara ensured I was well hydrated for the session – in all sorts of different ways.
This was shot by Mistress Mara either just before or just after our session and featured on her twitter feed.
You’re so right about your domme’s understanding of the interplay of her whips or canes or straps and your endorphins and her sexuality and all the emotional connection. Once you are in a real relationship your domme, you can pick up on the vibes of your partner. You may be bleeding, seriously marked, bound and/or blind folded even, and then her kiss on your cheek, and “”It’s gonna be all right.” Her caress of your hair, and her touch, and she asks “Shall we being again.” and your heart melts. She cares! you care! It ends in delirium, and you go to dinner. Have a great day.
Nice description :-).
I think a big part of BDSM – both on the top and bottom side – is picking up vibes. Reading each other is so essential.
-paltego