Returning to London for a few days has given me the opportunity to sneak some more kink into the last part of my vacation. Specifically I was lucky enough to set-up a fabulous session with Domina Emilia.
The session was an unusual one for me, as we did a cuckold themed roleplay. I almost never do roleplaying in sessions, but it seemed quite natural and easy to slip into it with Domina Emilia. I think a big part of that was down to the very organized pre-session communication that she did over email, helping set the scene, explore the hot buttons and give appropriate jumping off points. I’ve always found the tease and denial aspects of cuckolding to be very exciting, but never thought it was a good fit for me in a professional dynamic. Domina Emilia showed I was wrong about that, and that the fantasy could be brilliantly spun in the constraints of a time limited session.
The session also featured another first for me – use of audio/video aids. They were very cleverly incorporated to aid the fantasy and set the mood. It made me curious about they could be used more as tools in sessions. Often we think about audio and video as a substitute for physical encounters, but why not play with the combination of them? Kinky play is a type of interactive theater, so why not make got a step further into a mixed media art form?
This image of Domina Emilia is from her twitter feed. If you’re interested in sessions in the London area then I’d absolutely recommend contacting her. I think she’d be a fabulous person to get to know and play more with.
I would love to hear more about how this played out if you feel like sharing. I just can’t really imagine how it worked, so I’m very curious. For science!
Ferns
I don’t normally like to get into too much detail about sessions – it feels like talking about how a magic trick is done 🙂 – but I think it’d probably be OK to expand on this a little more.
We were doing a cuckold style roleplay where, after helping Emilia get ready, I was tied up while she ‘went out’ to enjoy herself. A blindfold was also used after the bondage was applied. After whispering into my ear and setting the scene, the blindfold was pulled away to reveal a screen playing a special video that worked for this particular context. Obviously pre-recorded, but the idea was it was happening now or had just happened and I was left behind bound and ‘forced’ to watch. Like all roleplays it required a suspension of disbelief, but it actually worked really well.
Before the session I’d have never expected a video to work well in the context of a physical scene. Why watch a movie when you can interact with a real person? However, in this case it did create an additional dimension and another way to build on the story being spun.
-paltego
Interesting, thank you :).
Request for more details is seconded. I know you are normally discreet in a gentlemanly way, but I’m intrigued by the way technology could be used.
See my reply to Ferns. As I said there, I don’t like to get into a huge amount of detail, but I think I’ve described enough there to imagine the approach.
Cheers,
-paltego
I have encountered the use of AV in session, both as prerecorded instructions while I was alone in the room preparing and as a live video feed of what was happening. At any level, the use of AV requires trust that it is not a cover for the creation of clips for sale. But, imho, it can intensify the session.
It does require trust, but I generally think that if you don’t trust your domme, then there are bigger issues to worry about :-). This was all playback rather than any live recording anyway.
I would have been highly skeptical in advance, but I’m now intrigued what other possibilities it offers.
Cheers,
-paltego