There’s an interesting post and set of follow-up comments on the subject of cuckolding over at the Not Just Bitchy blog. It’s a thread that’s well worth reading if you’re at all interested in the topic.
I may put up some thoughts of my own in a later post, but in the meantime let me address one burning issue that Stabbity and friends are sadly neglecting: What is it with facial expressions in cuckold porn? Strange expressions in porn are nothing new, but they seem particularly bad in the cuckold genre. There’s always a smug bull and an aghast cuckold, along with a female porn star playing the role like every other sex scene that she’s ever done. The example below is a good case in point. For further proof see this and this. They make me laugh, but that’s probably not the intended effect. Can kinky film producers not chip in for a few acting lessons for their cuckold stars?
The images are from the Cum Eating Cuckolds site. I should add that the ‘cuckold’ above is Deviant Kade, a man who has done many excellent and well acted femdom scenes in the past.
This photo makes me laugh. What a riot.
FWIW, I have been hired about a dozen times to pretend to be a client’s wife/significant other who was cheating on him.
Significantly, the (imaginary) man they (the client) wanted me to pretend I was sleeping with was an African-American dude or a man of inferior socioeconomic status. Like “the pool boy.” They never fantasized about me cheating on them with a millionaire. Very interesting, that.
P.S. Deviant Kade is a balls-to-the-wall crazy masochist who impresses the hell out of me. That boy is voracious; practically insatiable. I’m almost exclusively attracted to older men, but if I was going to have a personal sub again, it would be a guy like Kade. That fearless fucker will do ANYTHING. With ENTHUSIASM. Major Sub Respect for Kade. And he also is completely unapologetic about being Bisexual, which is rare. A lot of men get their gay on from time to time–I know cause they tell me–but they seldom come out it.
Possibly the idea of being cheated on with an ‘inferior’ (in their minds) is both humiliating (therefore hot) but safe, in that they can rationalize it as a sexual fling rather than a logical choice. That may not make much sense when the whole thing is pretend anyway, but I wonder if being cheated on with a millionaire would be too threatening. He’d more successful, and socially superior, and better in bed. That’s just failure and not hot. A cuckold is only a cuckold as long as she keeps coming back and he must therefore have something to offer. Otherwise he’s just a single guy who got dumped.
As for Kade, I agree, and that’s why I added that little line at the end. I’ve always admired his attitude and his scenes, and didn’t want the post to look like I was just taking the piss. He’s a talented guy.
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Ha! You’re absolutely right, those facial expressions are hilarious, which I can’t imagine is the effect the producer was going for.