In keeping with the somewhat serious and extreme theme started in yesterday’s post, here’s an image from Empress Jennifer’s twitter feed that’s guaranteed to make every guy wince.
I’ve no idea if it’s a genuine shot from a ball-busting scene or not. It would seem crazy if it was, but I’ve learned that it’s a big wide world, and some people player harder than I can ever imagine. I remember one pro-domme telling me about a ball-busting scene she’d done where the skin on the client’s penis split and peeled back. Given I was naked, bound and very vulnerable at the time, it was a story that really that caught my attention. Her amazing follow-up comment was that the guy hadn’t wanted to stop. Erect and bloody, he wanted to keep the kicks coming. That’s a level of masochism I have trouble relating to. And for everyone out there now wondering what the hell they just read, I can only apologize for implanting that particular mental image.
I have noticed that in political debate, one faction will quote an extreme case and try to persuade the audience that this is 100% typical of the other faction’s opinions and position.
BDSM sexuality is outer edge in many people’s opinion and this sort of grim anecdote helps to keep it there, much to the disadvantage of many safe sane and consensual relationships.
Yesterday, Paltego had a very thoughtful reference to the difficulties innocent people could get into with the police and I think its a safe bet that the police and prosecution authorities in the UK would have urgent thoughts about bringing charges of Grievous Bodily Harm and upwards if given evidence of the sort of scene Paltego describes – and in 1990 the UK police did exactly that:
http://www.spannertrust.org/documents/spannerhistory.asp
With this in mind, if I were a Dom or Domme faced with a client who aspired to stratospheric levels of play, for the benefit of the wider BDSM Community, I would merely say the the customer is NOT always right.
Domme’s have limits as well as clients, and it always needs to be SSC. SO yes, absolutely. Whether it’s professional or not, it needs to be safe and sane. BDSM is always in slightly murky legal ground, and particularly so when it reaches extremes.
Of course, I’ve no idea if this image was actually the result of an extreme session, or just a cleverly posed one 🙂
-paltego
She is brutal. The guy she usually whips and beats to a bloody pulp is called Rubber John and they are married IRL if I understood things correctly. But the girls at the American Mean Girls site are very sadistic.
Anyway. I love your blog and was wondering if you could add the feature that allows people to subscribe to it by entering an email address? A pretty good and easy way to get more return visitors to your blog.
Definitely agree on the American Mean Girls site. I’ve only seen some of their stuff, but what I’ve seen was either very mild or very sadistic. Nothing really in between.
Glad you like the site. I’ll look into the email thing. There’s probably a wordpress plug-in for it I can run. In the meantime, have you considered something like – https://blogtrottr.com/
I haven’t tried it myself, but it should let you subscribe to me RSS feed and get them to email you the updates. At least that’s what their site claims.
-paltego
The blood looks too bright to me. Blood oxides quickly in seconds and turns dark red or brown.
I use food coloring easily bought in grocery stores if I want desired effect. It’s water solvable, non-toxic, and easy to work with. It’s also a lot of fun in the shower afterward washing off the coloring, seeing red streaks or swirls flowing down the drain.
I think you’re right. It does look too red. More like horror movie blood than the real thing.
Although I’m now intrigued why you buy food coloring when you want to achieve this effect. What kind of scenes are you playing out! 🙂
-paltego