My kinky shenanigans on the East Coast continued today with a session with Mistress Tess. She’s someone I’ve admired from afar for a while now, and I consider myself very lucky to get the opportunity to session with her.
Much like my session earlier in the week with Troy Orleans, we featured a lot of heavy bondage, needles, CBT and electricity. However, that’s where the session similarity ended. With Troy I developed a relaxed and more meditative bondage headspace. With Mistress Tess there was no relaxing or meditating on the agenda. It was full of intense sensations and a constant shift between pain and pleasure. In hindsight the two sessions made a wonderful yin and yang. Similar on the surface, equally valid experiences, but so different in the dynamic.
This was also the closest I’ve ever come to role-playing in a session. I can’t say that I actually did any role playing personally, because my input – when I wasn’t screaming or moaning – was basically ‘yes’, ‘no’, ‘thank you’ and ‘sorry mistress’. So zero marks for me on the creative front. Fortunately, Mistress Tess more than made up for my incoherence by spinning some wonderful fantasies that pushed all sorts of buttons for me. It was so much fun it might almost inspire me to relax my previous aversion to roleplay. Most dommes are either quiet during sessions, interrogative or simply comment on what’s happening. I’ve never known anyone who could combine the kind of verbal and physical creativity that Mistress Tess demonstrated.
This is from the website of Mistress Tess. She also has a social media presence on twitter. If you can’t get to NYC to see her in person, then she has a OnlyFans site that you can join.
I’m very interested in hearing more about what and how those fantasies played out if you don’t mind sharing (for the record, I am also really not a role player, so when you say it was really great, I’m super curious).
Ferns
I’m a little interested as to why your interested :-). Are you thinking of adding some roleplay into your repertoire?
It started (I think) as a joke. I can’t remember what we were doing or what bondage gear we were playing with, but there some joking about me escaping from a castle. I can’t remember if it was a Frankenstein joke or just the apparatus looked medieval or what. But it made some sort of sense just in that moment as a joke between the two of us. Then Mistress Tess decided to run with that concept as a theme for the session. What was a continuation of the joke turned into a sequence of images and stories.
So then as she layered in more bondage she started spinning a tale about how this was how I was going to spend every night in the castle. That she’d ensure I was securely locked away, and that I might have sweet talked my previous owners into letting me lose, but that wouldn’t work with her. I was going to spend more of my time hidden away and nobody would hear me calling out.
As we got into the pain elements, that became a story about what was going to happen to me every morning. She’d have her nurse come in and do this horrible thing or that horrible thing, etc. And that she was going to show me what would happen if I tried to escape again, which resulted in much painful electrical zapping.
It doesn’t sound much written down. But we were playing for 3 hours, and throughout that she was spinning little vignettes of what my life in this castle would be like, and connecting the ideas back to the actual physical activity she was doing.
Given I have fantasies around inescapable heavy bondage, being experimented on, held prisoner and generally abused by cruel guardians, it was a real button pusher. Here was someone telling me how that was going to be my future in this mythical castle, all while doing those very things to me.
Like I said, I didn’t really add much to the scene, other than moans, screams and one word response. So it was possibly less roleplay, and more a kind of advanced improvisational theater where I doubled as an audience member and a stage prop!
-paltego
Thank you so much. I can imagine that kind of story telling (and have done similar myself) more than I can imagine straight up pretending to be someone/thing else and committing to it (which really just makes me feel silly).
As to why I asked: I’m all ‘nah, I don’t get it’, so when someone ‘gets it’, I want to hear about it. Maybe I will have a light bulb moment and go ‘ahh, okay… oooh hot!’ :).
Ferns
Hey Ferns,
I think it’s a slippery slope type thing – but in a good way!
If we’d started off with “Lets pretend your a slave in a castle…” then I’d have been very reluctant and thought it was weird. I’d have great difficulty letting myself go.
But we started with a joke between us. And then it became stories that existed in an abstract way. Then it was stories about me. Then it was what was going to happen to me. And then what I’d done wrong. By that point was I was ready to be a participant and in fact wanted to be. It was hot and I wanted to contribute. The endorphins and the normalization of it over time allowed me to slide into it.
Now admittedly, as I said in the post, I didn’t really participate. I was too far gone into subspace. Plus, Mistress Tess kept doing thing that were highly distracting! But in theory I was read and keen to participate. Which is an absolute first for me.
Now I write this, I think it’s probably a discussion that merits a post of its own. So thanks for the prompting to deeper analysis on this!
-paltego