Before leaving LA I was fortunate enough to spend time with Mistress Lucy Khan. We had a lengthy and very enjoyable session featuring a smorgasbord of different activities all wrapped in a fun roleplay dynamic. Some things on the menu included cupping, piercing, scentplay, breathplay, tease, denial and general sadism to my delicate bits.
I particularly enjoyed the rope spiderweb that Mistress Lucy wove around me towards the end of the session. You can see it in this photograph. It was one of those arrangements that didn’t make much sense to me as it was being constructed, as it didn’t feel like it’d hold me properly. Then Mistress Lucy pulled hard on the bottom two ropes and everything tightened and magically fell into place. I particularly liked the way she tied it off around my big toes. There’s always an interesting sense of vulnerability that comes with toe bondage, given how sensitive the soles of the feet are.
Reflecting on the session later that evening, still floating on buzz created, it struck me that one sign of a world class professional domme is the commitment and intensity she can bring to a session with someone she rarely sees. It had been around 9 months since we’d last got together, yet it didn’t feel like that. Mistress Lucy created and held a bubble that made it very easy for me to relax into subspace and exist with her in the moment.
This image is from Mistress Lucy’s twitter feed. That’s not me in the image, but we did indulge in some similar play.
As a long time reader first of all thanks for your blog. I have a question. When you do these trips and have multiple sessions over a few days, what do you do for physical aftercare? Do you have any recommendations?
Thanks for reading! Glad you enjoy the site.
That’s a good question. The short answer is I don’t really do anything particularly special. However, it’d probably be worth me writing a proper post on what random thoughts and advice I do have for this. So give me a day or two and I’ll put up a proper answer via a post.
-paltego