I enjoyed this story about a woman who breaks into uncontrollable laughter after she orgasms. Apparently the sex with her boyfriend is so good that it tickles her in all the right places.
I can relate, as I often find after heavy kinky play my post-orgasm reaction is laughter. Partly it’s the sense of absurdity that follows from surveying the scene of kinky carnage. There’ll be ropes and straps and odd toys and spiky things and two slightly sweaty bodies relaxing in the post scene glow. It’s inherently absurd in the best possible way.
I suspect the laughter is also a natural reaction to the release of high tension. I personally don’t get that reaction with regular sex, as that’s fun but not intense for me. Add pain and control and long drawn out teasing into the mix, and suddenly the contrast in the post-orgasm come down is so much stronger. It’s the difference between gently stretching and releasing a rubber band or stretching it till it snaps.
We laugh at jokes because they play with our expectations and contrast reality with the twist the punchline delivers. The incongruity of a joke makes it funny, as does the release in tension from the initial set-up. I find much same thing logic applies to a kinky scene.
Of course, while I may laugh at the end of a session, the domme typically gets to laugh all the way through it. This is Lady Pim, who plays out of the Ritual Chamber in Toronto. You can find her professional site here.
BDSM imagery is often rather solemn or clichéd, with imperious or snarling Dommes snarling at their cowering subs. I am sure you will have seen many examples of the species.
There used to be a Tumblr site called Happy BDSM which had many images like this one, showing Happiness and connection, respect and affection.
It is very refreshing. Thanks for sharing it.
Yeah, I liked the Happy BDSM tumblr a lot. I even posted on it a couple of times. e.g. http://www.femdom-resource.com/2012/05/22/happy-bdsm/
Like you I always enjoyed the fun and happy side of BDSM it showed. There wasn’t a huge amount of femdom on there, but the whole idea always put a smile on my face.
Glad you liked this image. I always keep my eye out for shots like it, as they’re my favorite type to feature. There’s definitely and sadly no shortage of the cliched ones you mentioned.
Thanks for taking the time to share thoughts and comment!
-paltego