Warning: A sad blog post ahead. Not this specific on. I mean this one from Mistress Simone. It’s on her experiences with her submissives that have passed away. A thought provoking and moving post.
I was going to follow it up by commenting on how complex the pro-domme and client relationship is. But that’s not entirely true. I’d hate to put off nervous potential clients by over over-emphasizing that aspect of the dynamic.
They can be very simple. A mutually beneficial but limited interaction where someone scratches a kinky itch and someone else earnings a living. They can be delightful but ephemeral. The stars align, it’s magical, and then you never manage to meet again. They can be boring and unfulfilling. I’ve had a sessions – admittedly just a few out of many hundreds – that I thought were just meh. The chemistry isn’t there and you have to move on. And occasionally, as Mistress Simone describes, they can be deep, long lasting and complex. Like most relationships, you never know what you’ll find until you try.
This is Mistress Simone as featured on her professional site. She’s a Chicago and Saint Loius based pro-domme. You can find more of her thoughts via her twitter, blog and prodcast.
Wow. I usually avoid obviously sad topics…too much to take on. Yet, I read her post because, in the years of internet and so-called real life people, sometimes i am left wondering…where are they, how are they? And im afraid to go beyond. What a strong, brave, good spirit she has to honor and respect and mourn those lost. I hope stronger people than I am will continue to reach out. A sigh, a few tears, some good memories. Thank you for opening this heart to memories sweet and sad.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and commenting. Certainly a sad and tricky topic. I often wonder the same thing about the people I’ve crossed paths with over the years. Where are they and how are they….?
-paltego