I’ve collected these links from a wide variety of sources including forums, directory sites, blogs and pro-domme wish lists (a particularly rich vein to mine). One thing I haven’t done is personally shopped at all of them. This list represents a starting point, not any kind of personal endorsement from me.
If you own a site or know of a site that you’d like me to include then drop me a line. However, note that there are a couple of criteria for inclusion. I’ve already listed a number of large general purpose BDSM equipment sites, so don’t bother if you’re just another cookie cutter BDSM shopping site. Nobody needs 20 places to buy a red ballgag at exactly the same price. Also ensure that your site doesn’t look like it was designed in the early 90’s. It doesn’t have to be at the cutting edge of web technology, but I tend to the view that a crappy website indicates a badly run business.
The default assumption is that sites are US based, and where that isn’t true I’ve called it out explicitly. Obviously a lot of places will ship internationally, so location needn’t be a limiting factor in a lot of cases.
Large Sites
- Bondage Corner – UK based site – New 13/12/16
- BDSM Gear
- Church of Sinvention – Canadian based site
- Evil Toys – German site carrying both furniture and toys (translation)
- Extreme Restraints
- Devus – UK based site
- Fetish Toybox
- Fetters – UK based site specializing in bondage equipment.
- Fort Troff – Targets a gay audience, but lots of interesting toys for male submissives.
- Kink Industries
- Leather Masters – Originally for just LGBT community but has since diversified offerings –Â New 13/12/16
- Madame S – Sister site to Mr S Leather, but targeting both female and male submissives.
- Meo – German based site with a lot of high end and serious BDSM toys.
- Mr S Leather – Targets a gay audience but no reason not to shop there for F/m relationships as well.
- Spices for love
- Stockroom – One of the largest and most popular sites.
- Stormy Leather – Sells variety of toys, as well as manufacturing their own.
- Uber Kinky – UK site with a wide range of equipment
General toys and equipment
- Aslan Leather – Creator of leather toys and general retail (Canadian)Â – New 13/12/16
- Cane-IAC – Very large selection of spanking and caning implements.
- Caught-In-The-Act (aka maxcita) – Producers of straightjackets and bodybags.
- Cobra Whips – Site of UK based Alex Jacob, whip maker.
- Collar Factory – Provides made-to-order custom collars.
- De Tail Toys – Specializes in floggers. Also runs good value deals at sister site.
- Dream Lover Laboratories – Electronic devices for chastity control.
- Dungeon Delights – Variety of hardware, mostly in metal.
- Erin Houdini Rope – Bondage rope and lessons
- Handcuff Warehouse – Sells law enforcement and institutional style restraints.
- Happy Tails – Offers a wide variety of floggers.
- Jack’s Floggers – As the name suggests, a wide variety of floggers (UK based).
- Kink Engineering – Latex equipment and bondage gear, offering excellent vacuum beds.
- The Kink Shop – Specializes in impact and sensation play equipment – New 13/12/16
- Kinky Bitch – Some nice milled aluminum toys
- Leather by Danny – Sells a variety of leather gear including cuffs, straps, paddles, gags, etc.
- Leatherbeaten – Specializes in leather restraints, impact toys and accessories (Canadian)Â – New 13/12/16
- The London Tanners – UK based site specializing in leather disciplinary equipment.
- Martin’s Rigidcuffs – Metal restraints.
- Mojave Outliers – Makers of a wide selection of whips, floggers and crops.
- Paddle Daddy – Handcrafted BDSM toys and equipment.
- Quality Control – Makers of toys and bondage equipment (UK Based)Â – New 13/12/16
- Scott Paul Designs – Well known for his humiliator gag system and click cuff bondage system.
- Sex & Metal – As the name suggests, a lot of interesting metal toys.
- Strict Leather – Various leather toys including bondage restraints and CBT devices.
- Strictly Leather – Clothing, restraints and toys (UK Based)Â – New 13/12/16
- Top to Bottom Leather – Manufactures leather toys and accessories (UK Based) –Â New 13/12/16
- Twisted Monk – Producer of high quality bondage rope.
- Wild Gasmasks – A variety of fantastical hoods and masks.
Medical
Electrical
- ErosTek – Maker of the ET312P, one of the best power units on the market.
- Mystim – German based with a not particularly readable English site.
- P.E.S.
Chastity
- Birdlocked – A silicone chastity device.
- CB-6000 – Probably the best known chastity device on the market.
- Kept For Her – Offers equipment, testimonials and comparative shopping charts.
- Male Chastity Devices – Offer a large selection of different chastity devices.
- Mature Metal – Sells several different steel options including the Jail Bird.
- Neo Steel – Their web site is awful, but I’m assured they make a quality product
- Steelwerks – Creators of some beautiful custom made steel devices.
Furniture
- House of eros – UK based company offering swings, cages, crosses, etc.
- MetalBound – As the name suggests, specializes in metal furniture. Highly regarded by pro-domme’s.
- Saxon Dungeon Furniture – Products include tables, horses and crosses.
- Slave to Love – UK Site specializing in fold flat furniture
- Style Fetische – German site with a big collection of unique furniture (translation)
- Tetruss – Suspension bondage furniture.
- Walsh Metalworks – Creates artistic pieces in BDSM and non-BDSM domains. Also has a tumblr site here.
Clothes and Fashion
- Ainsley – Fetish shoes –Â New 13/12/16
- Atsuko Kudo – Latex design and fashion.
- The Baroness – Fetish rubber fashions.
- Breathless – UK based store for latex and rubber fetishwear.
- Breathless Corsets – Men’s and Women’s corsets – New 13/12/16
- Dark Garden – Corsetry, both mainstream and alternative.
- Demask – Leather and rubber outfits, with stores in both US and Europe.
- Domina Style – Jewelry with a Femdom slant – Â New 13/12/16
- Exquisite Restraint – Custom corsets based out of LA. Also has a tumblr site
- Heretic – Canadian based creator of custom clothing including corsets.
- Libidex – UK based store selling a very large variety of latex clothing.
- Lux Tenebrae – UK based, specializing in corsetry and leather clothing.
- Miss Katie – UK based seller of corsets and retro-fetish fashion.
- North Bound Leather – Leather outfits and BDSM equipment.
- Slaughter House Couture – Bespoke latex garmets.
- The Sissy Store – As the name suggests, lots of sissy related clothes and accessories –Â New 13/12/16
- Vex Clothing – Men and Women’s custom latex clothing.
- Westward Bound – UK based handmade designer latex clothing.
- Winter Fetish – PVC, spandex and darlex fetishwear and bondage gear.
very helpful, just one question.
Where do you get those small electric shock things kink use all the time in their films.
They are about 25cm long with black handle and red slightly tapered. on the end they spark and make a crack. I need one!
I know exactly the device you mean, and I have no idea where you get them from. I’ve seen them in a lot of kink shots, but I’ve never seen a stun gun store that carries anything similar. I’ll keep an eye out for you.
-paltego
http://www.devus.co.uk/zenstore/
The Tazapper. This is the only place I know of to buy one.
The Kink Shop out of Shreveport carries them. You order from them. They also vend at most of the kink events in the U.S.
http://thekinkshop.com/kink_030.htm
thanks for that ordered one!
Hiya 🙂 do you fancy adding our little website http://www.kinkyspanks.com to your list please ? Specialists in handmade wooden clamps, paddles, humblers and floggers – and every single thing on our site is completely hand made at our Derbyshire workshops. We also welcome requests from complementary suppliers with a view to link-building. Kind regards – Andrew
You’re already there! I added you back in December 🙂
too bad there is nothing about silk scarves bondage and silk scarves mummification, sigh
Women are said to be very good at tying & mummifying using silk scarves but I can’t find even a single topic here, what a shame?
I ordered from fetishmetal.com and loved their custom made products +++!!
Michael from Sex & Metal here, We have a new store now live we awesome new products, Thanks for the link 🙂
Hi we would love to be included in your list. We are UK based and happy to be of assistance. http://www.kinkykandi.com
Hello!
We’d love to be added to your list too!
http://www.biggerharderfaster.com
Thanks you for your consideratoin.
Cheers
Hi. I’ve been building a new dungeon for my Wife/Mistress and this guide has been ever so helpful; EvilToys is excellent for furniture and i’ve also bought some CP gear from House of Eros.
Thankyou for being so inspirational, it looks like I may be in the good books for a change 🙂
Thanks for letting me know it was useful. Always happy to hear that I’ve helped people to have more kinky fun!
-paltego
Where can I buy 25mm, 28mm and 30mm rattan canes?
Kindly include http://www.myeroticescape.com/ on the list they carry a large selection of BDSM equipments and machines!
cupids bedroom is a dead link!
Hello!
We’d love to be added to your list too 😉
http://www.gay-shop.fr
Thanks a lot
very usefull list
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Hi guys,
if you want to some quality bdsm restraint you can check out http://www.bondagecorner.co.uk bondage gear shop online xx
im looking for a web site that sells the vampire gloves. my owner an I lost ours in a fire and I would like to replace them for him
I have a large B&D collection I’m tying to sell on Ebay with no luck so far. Is there anywhere else I can list it?
Hi,
Could you add cuffstore to your list? We carry high quality stainless steel and nickle plated brass BDSM gear, stainless steel collars in sizes 12″ to 20″. unusual handcuffs, spreader bars, shrews fiddles, etc.
Hello! I noticed the link to Mojave Outliers isn’t working. I changed domains about 2 years ago, and this is the current web address: http://www.mojaveoutliers.com/
Wonderful site! And thank you!
DM
Thanks for the update. I’ve updated the link.
-paltego
i like your webpage <3
Great!
My special equipment for birching (not for sale!) looks interesting also!
http://djeki.ru/fantazii/maple-twigs-and-wi-fi
I am looking for a place that make a working reproduction of Medieval stretching rack made of wood. I saw one on line that was custom make in BD/SM company in Canada, but now I can’t find the link if anyone know the link of the company or any BD/SM company that will make a reproduction of a working reproduction of Medieval stretching rack made of wood.
Can anyone point me in the direction to find the following latex gear?
1st; Someone with the ability to create an semi rigid, inflatable hollow enema plug that inflates to at least a 10 cm outer diameter, with an minimum inside diameter of 5 cm and a maximum length of 12 cm? (measurements are slightly flexible)
2nd; I would also like an inflatable cock/ball sheath w/drain tube.
3rd Someone who has the capability to incorporate conductive silicone, or similar material in their latex
Thanks
Hi id really like it if you could add our site to your list
http://gratefulpain.co.uk/
Hey there,
My name is Jett, owner of https://oxy-shop.com
Do check out our BDSM gear site!
Cheers
Bound to Serve-Building custom bed frames from scratch. We offer the additional features to your bed frame like RGB led lights, audio, TV mounts, cage etc. Have the 50 shades of grey lifestyle on a budget.
Hi Paltego, thanks for the listing! Leatherbeaten is proud to be counted among such excellent company. We’re still handmaking all manner of unique, innovative, beautiful and nasty gear, as ever, specialising in flagellation pieces.
As a more practical thank you, we’ve created an unlimited use femdom-resource discount that your users can take advantage of to get 10% off everything on our site. Feel free to access that here: https://leatherbeaten.com/discount/FDR10 , or just enter FDR10 at the checkout.
Great list.
We make BDSM furniture and sextoys. Maybe our link to the BDSM furniture will fit your list.
https://www.steeltoyz.de/bdsm-moebel/
I am looking for a bondage chair similar to this one featured on Mistress Sapphire’s web site – image No 9 in this gallery.
http://mistress-sapphire.co.uk/galleries/the-dark-side/
If anybody has any idea where to acquire on please reply.
In anticipation
coral_MS
Hi we would love to be included in your list.
https://refetish.com
Hey
We’d love to be added to your list too.
https://chastitycages.co/collections/steel-chastity-cages
I hope our products like your audience.
Thanks
Hi! Thank you for great list!
We’d love to be added to your list too.
https://halisis.com/
I have a large bondage collection and we sell our products on eBay and Amazon.
I hope our products like your audience.
Thanks
Hello. We are a manufacturer of bdsm products and harnesses. I would like you to add us to your list but did not find how to contact you.
our website
https://novabdsm.com/
Hi id really like it if you could add our site to your list
https://www.msoulart.com/
Hi we would love to be included in your list.
https://www.latexcharms.com