I like this shot for the very delicate way she’s handling the situation. Part of the hotness of chastity play comes from the importance of the cock. It’s not just a piece of meat. It’s the focal point for a male’s sexuality. As Ferns recently wrote when describing chastity play…
he became sensitised in a way he had never been before, his entire way of walking around in the world changed, his view of himself changed, his relationship with his sexuality was emphasised, and I was the owner of all of it.
Often chastity shots emphasize the key or the device, but neglect the erotic and sexual nature of the play. In contrast, this shot really captures those elements for me. The delicacy and sensitivity of the appendage is highlighted, with her focus obviously on the man himself, and not the nuts and bolts of the device.
I found this on the Volens Datorem tumblr. It’s originally from The Kinky English Lady, Miss Hybrid.
Often chastity shots emphasize the key or the device, but neglect the erotic and sexual nature of the play
And all too often, the device is played up for the humiliation, rather than the erotic control. Captioned pictures are the worst offenders, IMO.
BTW, the model is a very attractive mature woman, which is also nice to see for a change.
Hey Tom,
Humiliation isn’t my thing, but I don’t really have a problem with the device being used that way. It’s clearly a popular kink. And I have to admit to finding some combinations of cuckolding and and chastity devices kind of hot. That fits into a tease and denial type of scene for me. But I do agree the humiliation variant does seem to be excessively represented, particularly with (as you say) captioned pictures. The rarity of this kind of shot (both in style and in the model used) is a shame.
-paltego
Hi Paltego:
That is a lovely photo. It communicates tenderness which is rarely found in femdom erotica.
Hey hmp,
Yes, I thought so to. It definitely captures a really nice moment in time.
-paltego
I love the combination of a light touch/sensuality with chastity. Beautiful & powerful.
xo
Mistress T
Thanks Mistress T. Glad you liked it. I’ve personally always found that a lot of your images and movies are also very good at capturing that blend of sensuality, delicacy and yet powerful control.
-paltego
Thanks for the call out, paltego.
“Often chastity shots emphasize the key or the device, but neglect the erotic and sexual nature of the play”
I am generally disappointed with the one dimensional view of chastity that I see everywhere, even though I understand where it comes from (one dimension is *always* easier to represent than multi-dimensions… duh!).
I always want to see it represented as something hot *between* a Domme and her submissive (versus something she *does* to him) because it is actually so hugely intimate.
Ferns
No problem Ferns. I liked your original post a lot. It really captured a great aspect of chastity play that, as you say, is rarely portrayed in images or movies. It’s obviously easy to portray the punishment and denial aspects of chastity, but much harder to capture the intimacy and enhanced sensitivity that so many people enjoy.
-paltego