There’s a very famous radio show in the UK called Desert Island Discs. It has run since the 1940’s with a format that has never been altered. They invite a guest on and he or she has to pick the 8 pieces of music they’d want to have with them if they were stranded on a desert island. They also get to nominate a single book and a luxury item to take. The show revolves around playing the music and discussing why they made those choices.
It’s a very adaptable format for all sorts of specialist areas and tonight, over a glass of wine, I got to mulling what my BDSM desert island toys would be. I didn’t really settle on a final list, but there was always one constant on any list I came up with – sharp, tight plastic clips. A lot of other toys get all the glory. Canes, whips, boots and rope feature everywhere and tend to hog the limelight. Spring loaded clips don’t look all that sexy, don’t feature in classic BDSM erotica and are never fetishized. Yet they’re incredible versatile for creating interesting painful sensations and have featured in some of my favorite scenes (one of which I wrote about here). Definitely something that’d be packed in my steamer chest for any isolated tropical vacations.
I found this shot on the Beyond the Valley of the Femdoms tumblr. Like a lot of images I feature, it was their expressions that drew me to it. They both look happy, but in very different ways.
An interesting exercise paltego. I have no problem deciding who I would like to bring along to this fictitious deserted island, but a list of toys?
Reminds me of a team-building simulation I used to do with students:
http://www.humansynergistics.com/Products/TeamBuildingSimulations/SurvivalSeries/DesertSurvivalSituation
Maybe I should adapt it to a game kinksters could play 🙂
Suzanne
Hey Suzanne,
In the original show you weren’t allowed to take anyone at all. Obviously that wouldn’t work too well for the BDSM version. Even a switch would have difficulty dominating themselves!
I’ve actually done that team building simulation in the past, along with similar ones involving lifeboats and sinking ships. I’m not sure how much team building it led to, but it was always a good discussion. Team building for kinksters? It’d be an interesting team, if nothing else 🙂
-paltego