Femdom Links

This is a general collection of useful links to femdom forums, resources, articles, aggregators, pro-domme directories, etc. If you’ve any links that you think would be appropriate to add here then either leave a comment or email me.

Pro-domme resources

Personal recommendations

I don’t have the time to maintain a general directory of pro-domme sites. However, I will list the pro-dommes I’ve done sessions with and, most importantly, that I would happily recommend to others. I’m sure there are many other great dommes in the cities below, but these are the ones I can speak to personally. In several cases I’ve posted descriptions and photographs of my experiences.

• Las Vegas, Nevada
  • Goddess Natashka.
• London, United Kingdom
  • Domina Emilia
  • Mistress Adreena
  • Mistress Miranda
• Los Angeles, California
  • Damiana Chi
  • Inga Larsson
  • Isabella Sinclaire
  • Mistress Lucy
  • Mistress Iris
  • Also suggest checking out The Chi Temple and The Domme Collective
• New York, New York
  • Mistress Tess
  •  Troy Orleans
• San Francisco, California
  • Domina Colette
  • Domina Yuki
  • Elise Graves
  • Mistress Chloe Mercury
  • Also suggest checking out The Domme Sisterhood.
• Seattle, Washington
  • Domina Victoria Rage
  • Ms Savannah Sly

Directories

• BDSM Eros.  The eros site is one of the larger sites where sex workers advertise. The BDSM sub-section is relatively small but it is up to date and includes photographs.
• Dan’s Femdom Links. Extensive bullet lists, although on a casual inspection I found a fair number of dead links.
• Dickie Virgin. One of the longest running and most comprehensive directories.
• Domina.Ms. Another site with lots of links, but you have to pick your way through the dead and dormant ones.
• HogSpy. This has daily updates publicizing events related to specific pro-dommes. e.g. Visiting new cities, moved playspaces, updated their sites, etc.
• Mistress Guide. One of the larger sites that appears to frequently updated.
• Open Adult Directory – BDSM listings. This is a very comprehensive collection of dommes across the world, with the exception of the US. For some reason it covers Canada and Mexico, but missed out the big bit between the two.
• Pandemos. Not the most comprehensive listing, but it does have photographs and more information than a simple bullet list.
• Sin Search. It’s a pretty basic layout, but it has a good collection of links for dommes across the world.
• Slixa. This is primary for escorts. It does have filters for BDSM/kinky providers but it doesn’t seem to have any significant number of pro-dommes listed.
• Tryst. Another site primary targeting escorts, but unlike Slixa the BDSM filter does seem to return a decent selection of pro-dommes.

Communities and forums

• Collar N Cuffs. A dedicated femdom site with forums, blogs, photos, etc. You need to complete their free sign-up before you can browse it.
• Fetlife. By far the largest BDSM community site, this is the kinky equivalent of Facebook. That comparison holds not only for its size and functionality, but also for all the data sharing and management issues that their business models create.
• The Hang. The set of forums associated with the Max Fisch Domina Guide. Primarily focused on pro-domme interaction, but there are also general discussion on femdom, kink, health issues, etc. It’s all openly browsable, but the moderation is erratic and it can sometimes take weeks to register as a new user.
• The Reddit Femdom. I wouldn’t go here looking for expert advice, but it can be a fun place to dip in and out of.

Aggregator sites

• Femdom City. Provides links to an incredible number of femdom sites of all different types. The only problem is that they’re all mixed together into a simple alphabetical list, which makes finding anything tricky.
• Femdom Planet. Another site with a vast number of links. Fun for randomly browsing, but not great for tracking down a specific type of site.
• Femdom TGP. Mostly links to porn galleries and video clips. The layout is crowded and hard to follow, but it can be fun to play femdom porn roulette by clicking around on it.

Guidance and reference material

• Ambrosio’s BDSM site. This has long list of articles and essays on various kinky topics, although it’s not specific to femdom.
• Collar N Cuffs resources. This site has a fantastic list covering all sorts of topics. There are both essay and video tutorials, on everything from making rope gags to prostrate milking.
• Submissive Guide. A lot of its posts are written from the perspective of female submission, but I think a large fraction of them can be applied to male submission as well.
• Tickleberry. Originally this mainly featured information on chastity play, but it seems to have branched out to cover things like pegging and spanking as well.

Interesting writing / listening

• Clarisse Thorn is, in her owns words, a “feminist, pro-BDSM sex-positive activist.” Her writing is less about the mechanics of BDSM, and a lot more about it’s interaction with relationships, self-image and sexual politics.
• Masocast. A podcast run by Axe that features interviews with kinky people in NYC.
• Savage Love and Savage Lovecast. The advice column/podcast from Dan Savage. Neither are explicitly about kink, but they often touch on it, and Dan is always worth listening to.