I don’t have a lot of hard limits when I play. This certainly isn’t to say I’m any kind of super-submissive or ultra-masochist. There are definitely activities I sometimes struggle with. It’s just that I’m wired to enjoy D/s and power exchange, and therefore like almost any kind of interaction that facilitates that. I think this tends to be in contrast to those submissives who fetishize a certain style of play or type of activity, and therefore have much stricter lists of what is and what isn’t acceptable. Plus, I’m a big believer in Sir Thomas Beecham’s dictum: “In this life try everything once, except incest and country dancing.”
However, one hard limit I do have is scat play. I get it on an intellectual level. After all, I do like piss play, and in someways that can have a similar dynamic. But just on aesthetic and health grounds, I can’t never ever see me putting scat play on the menu (if you’ll excuse the expression). That said, I was interested to read Mistress Kendra Knight’s writing on ‘Shit-play and toilet slavery in dominance/submission‘. It didn’t change my mind at all about the activity, but hearing about it from a well known dominant and a couple of her slaves did give an insight into the mindset of people who do enjoy it. I think a lot of people would be surprised to hear them use such words such as spiritual, sensual and sacrament in the context of eating excrement. And even more surprised to see someone inspired to write poetry written about it.
Note that the article is text only, split over 6 pages, with no pictures, apart from of the beautiful Mistress Kendra herself. But despite the lack of graphic images, the text is fairly explicit in describing this extreme activity and it’s probably best avoided if you’re squeamish.