The beauty of dominant women
While I’m posting on the subject of food, how about this as an alternative use for a tasty condiment? This seems particularly nasty with the chastity cage in place to act as a helpful funnel and bowl.
I’m afraid I’ve no idea where this originally came from. I found it on the snail meilk site.
I recently added the ‘Sadist Next Door’ to my blog roll. It’s written by Mistress Crimson, a professional dominatrix from Chicago. She has a number of interesting posts, but one that really caught my eye was about food. She quotes Anthony Bourdain on eating as an act of submission.
It is about giving up all vestiges of control, about entrusting fate entirely to someone else. It is about turning off the mean, manipulative, calculating and shrewd person inside of you and slipping heedlessly into a new experience as if it were a warm bath. It is about shutting down the radar and letting good things happen. Let it happen to you.
Antony Bourdain, from his book ‘The Nasty Bits’
As both a huge food fan and a submissive I can completely relate to this. Some of the best meals of my life have been when I’ve simply entrusted myself to the chef and let him completely direct the flow of the meal. On the flip side, I also get very frustrated when I’m eating with people who keep trying to grab control from the chef and mess around with elements of the meal. I guess that’s the dining equivalent of topping from the bottom.
Of course as in any D/s relationship, you have to be sure the dominant knows what he or she is doing. A masochist’s delight in suffering doesn’t translate to the food domain quite as well as a submissive tendency does!
This is Madame Sarka wielding her whip. The dress and the shoes don’t look ideally suited to the task, but she seems to be balancing it beautifully. And obviously enjoying herself.
She’s a professional dominatrix based out of Prague.
I think this is a great drawing, although I’ve no real idea what the artist was originally trying to convey. The rod and apple have fairly obvious symbology, but the collared chrome pig and the initialed dog dish are a little more puzzling. At first I thought it was a fetishized femdom version of a political cartoon. It feels like there should be a caption about decadent fat bankers in thrall to cruel Mistress Capitalism. But as far as I can tell from the artist’s comments, it’s just a drawing of and for a friend, in a style inspired by the famous Hajime Sorayama.
The artist is Serge Birault. He goes under the handle PapaNinja at his deviant art site, and he has a gallery site where you can purchase his work.
I’ve done suspension scenes before, but never an inverted one. I can’t image how intense it must be to be upside down, hooded, bound and whipped. Wonderfully terrible I suspect.
This is taken from the galleries on Domina Liza’s site. She’s a professional dominatrix from Derby in England.
A few years ago a Japanese company was working on Internet smell-o-vision. Given the lack of scents wafting out of my new laptop, I’m guessing they never quite managed to figure it out. Which is a shame, as some images really cry out for an aromatic accompaniment. The brilliant John Waters was of course ahead of his time in this respect.
This image is originally from brutal-facesitting. I found it on the un-des-sens tumblr site. It’s a interesting tumblr site, as it has a lot of artist black and white photographs, rather than the usual grab bag of random reblogged tumblr porn. However, a fair number of the images seem to have started life as conventional porn, and then been manipulated to create slightly more interesting and distinctive pictures. Or manipulated to create artificially pretentious arty images, if you’re feeling cynical. Personally, I liked it a lot.
This is an evil glance over the shoulder. It makes me think of fairy tales, wicked witches and evil curses. It’s the look from the last frame of the horror movie, when you realize the hero hasn’t escaped at all. Or the plot twist moment where the attractive damsel in distress starts devouring her rescuers souls.
This is from the russian-mistress site.
I love everything about this image. The symmetry of it. The precision of the needle line. The sense of calm intensity. The shadowy figure of the domina, imposing and yet not defined. It’s probably my favorite image of all that I’ve posted to date.
It’s taken from Domina Yuki’s tumblr site. She’s a professional dominant, working out of San Francisco, Her main website with details on arranging sessions can be found here.
I think my reaction to needle play was one of the biggest surprises I had (out of many) when first getting involved in BDSM. It had zero appeal at a fantasy level, and was something I’d recoil from if I came across it in femdom porn. In reality it turned out to be an amazingly intense and enjoyable activity. Although I have to admit to almost fainting on my first attempt, so minus several masochist points there. Fortunately, I have got a little better since then.
I was actually in a similar position to this gentleman a week or so ago, but instead of an arch across the chest, the mistress (Lady Lydia in my case) placed pairs of needles at the top of each arm, my hips, my shins and the edge of my hands. She then zigzagged cord back and forth between them under the table, anchoring me in place with some deliciously painful predicament bondage. That of course then left her free to start work with the needles on the nipples….
Here’s an intriguing but slightly ominous piece of furniture. It becomes even more ominous when I tell you it’s taken from the same site that I based this previous post on.
As a bed it leaves something to be desired. There’s no padding and it’s not long enough to support the legs fully. But the chair part looks more comfortable. There’s a nicely padded box and a fabric back support.
Sure enough, when you get to see it in action, the ladies seem quite happy about their side of the deal. Unfortunately it’s a little tricky to read his expression. The view may make up for the discomfort. But I’m guessing a hard surface to lie on is probably going to be the least of his problems by the time they’ve finished shooting the scene.
This is from the Team-Rinryu site, which is associated in some way (not sure exactly how) with the yapoo market femdom series. Both these sites feature some very intense femdom content with all aspects of toilet play featured. If you’re at all squeamish about that kind of thing I’d suggest extreme caution if you follow those links. There’s some distinctly disturbing images there.
Mistress Matisse had an interesting post last year about using Listerine strips in a scene. However, it turns out she’s not quite the original I thought she was. It seems that the artist annmo night had already sketched a few ideas around Listerine as a torture device, as the image below shows. It’s quite an inventive approach, as you’d expect from him. I suspect that there’s no scenario where the submissive wins. It’s just a question of which mistress wins when the submissive loses.
