maymay has a sweet moment of male submission captured by two of his readers on his Male Submission Art blog. It’s a candid shot of a real life BDSM moment, and makes a nice contrast to the more commercial and explicit erotic material a lot of blogs (including this one) feature. I don’t think there’s much that I can say to improve it, so just follow this link to the post.
Paddles and Straps
This is Mistress Katya showing off her collection of paddles and straps, with a look that manages to be both serious and sensual.
She’s a pro-domme based in NYC. Her main site with a session information is available here. This was taken from her free galleries page.
An unusual participant
I’ve always been a fan of Madame Loreen’s work at OWK. She manages to blend elegance and sadism to excellent effect. I’ve got an old VHS tape of her movie ‘The Revenge’ lurking around in a drawer somewhere that was a longtime favorite for its caning and whipping scenes.
However, as I’ve posted before, she occasionally features in some slightly less than conventional shots. I’m not exactly sure what the animal in the image below is, or why she has it, or what she plans to do with it. I’m guessing that it’s just a pet that the photographer happened to snap her with between scenes. But this is definitely one of the more curious femdom images I’ve come across. Maybe she’s a nihilist?
If you’re interested in seeing more of Madame Loreen in slightly more conventional scenes, the OWK cinema site has a collection of her movies.
Ruined Orgasms
The ‘milk that cock’ tumblr site has an interesting post categorizing the different ways to ruin the male orgasm. I’d always been aware of the common technique where all stimulation is removed just past the point of no return. But I hadn’t realized there was a taxonomy of different techniques. For example:
Squelching: An alternative technique for blocking the flow of semen, accomplished by squeezing the tip of the penis very tightly just as it tries to expel the semen.
There’s something very deliciously evil about ruining an orgasm. Taking that one perfect moment away and destroying it. Giving someone hope, and that just at the moment they’re most helpless, snatching it away. Wonderful.
The tumblr post include a link to Taylor Teases guide to ruined orgasms. The site is a bit of mess with way too much happening on each page, but there’s some fun embedded video clips showing some of the techniques in action, so it’s worth browsing around.
Another good source for ruined orgasm porn is Mayas Handjobs. She’s very skilled at slow teasing, and has a significant number of clips that finish with the abandonment technique. It’s a clips store site, so you can purchase clips individually. These strangely hypnotic animated gifs show her in action, or I guess I should say, deliberate inaction.
Packed for a trip
It appears that her luggage is leaking. In my experience the travel accessory shops never seem to have exactly what you need. They’re always out of the basic stuff like catheters and diapers.
I’ve no idea who the artist is, other than the name ‘gig’. There’s a whole collection of images in two imagefap galleries here and here, with a mixture of f and Ff. They’re very curious drawings. A real mixture of the erotic, disturbing and weird. There’s a strong theme of body image and modification that runs through them. I’d guess that the artist is a woman, given the themes, but I’d love to know more (or indeed anything) about her background.
Capitalization Bullshit
Excuse me while I rant for a moment.
In browsing femdom blogs and forums, I’ve repeatedly come across an incredibly annoying affectation. In what I assume is an effort to reinforce someone’s dominant status, pronouns are consistently and incorrectly capitalized. For example – ‘…tomorrow She will do a scene….’ Or – ‘…with My favorite slave…’
I’ve seen this done from people on both sides of the D/s divide, so it’s clearly not just a few insecure dominants mangling the language in an effort to emphasize their status. It strikes me as completely ridiculous, and achieves nothing other than making comments and articles harder to read.
Amazingly, in what must be a deliberate effort to do something even more ludicrous, I’ve also noticed people trying to write both forms at once. For example – ‘…do Y/you find…’ Or – ‘…what would Y/you do?’
This puzzled me for a time, until I finally figured out that the writer was trying to cater for both dominant and submissive readers. Obviously as a lowly submissive I should read the lower-case version while mighty dominants can read the upper-case version and not get offended. There was a lot of swearing at my computer when that particular penny dropped.
Look, I don’t care how dominant you are. I don’t care if you walk everywhere on a fleshy path of prostrate submissives and reduce grown men to tears by a mere look. The English language is bigger and more important that you are. It’s a top, not a bottom. Stop trying to fuck with it.
Thank you. End of rant. We now return you to your normal scheduled programs.
Kink on G4
I came across this link on that favorite site of all procrastinators everywhere – fark.com. I’m not really sure what ‘Attack of the Show’ is, or who Candace Bailey is for that matter, but as far as mainstream representations of kink are concerned this one didn’t seem too terrible. It’s obviously mostly an excuse to show some attractive women in tight latex, but I can imagine at least a few people out there might have thought: “Hmmm, that looks kind of fun.” Which is better than the more usual: “Wow, what a bunch of freaks.”
The dominatrix in the clip is Mistress January Seraph. She does a pretty good job consider that the presenter looks great in latex but doesn’t know one end of a whip from another. And her playroom looks like a really fun place to session in. Here she is as ‘Nurse Seraph’.
Image shows Mistress January Seraph and was taken from this gallery page.
Breath play with gasmask
Just before the Christmas break I did a very enjoyable breath play session with the extremely talented Lady Lydia. So in honor of that I thought a breath play post might be in order.
We’ve used gas masks when we’ve played previously, but this time it was just a section of plastic wrap draped across the mouth and nose. When the plastic is cold and stiff it moves around with each breath and it’s still possible to sneak a little oxygen in. But as it gets warmer and moister it begins to stick across the lips and nostrils. Eventually the exhale doesn’t dislodge it, and the inhale does nothing but pull it tighter and tighter. This creates a beautiful swirl of emotions: Helplessness, Submission, Fear, Sacrifice, Trust.
I’m not sure exactly what my expression was during the scene, but I’m guessing as the oxygen ran short, I was doing a little wide eyed staring like the model below.
I found this on the dddecember tumblr site. There are a couple of additional images from the same scene, including a shot with the dominants in frame, in posts here and here. From the watermark on the bottom of the image it appears it originally came from the freaks inside site.
Added Annmo Night to Femdom Artwork
Fans of the more extreme side of femdom illustration will probably enjoy Annmo night.
Heavy Medical Play
I don’t know the creator of this particular illustration, but I am impressed by the number of intense medical torments that he or she has managed to cram into a single frame. There’s a catheter, an enema, electroshock and an injection on the way. Not to mention some sort of clamp around the scrotum. Looks fun.
