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The eyes have it

I’m sure most people looking at this image would not immediately think of female dominance. Prior to posting, I spent a long time staring at it, trying to figure out exactly why I thought it was an appropriate image to post here. She’s not sneering at the camera. Or staring down at the viewer with a cold expression. There’s no leather gear in sight. And no whip clenched between her teeth. Yet, for some reason, it instantly appealed to me as a femdom image.

I think it’s because of her eyes. They seem to stare right into me. She has a very penetrating, knowing look. And that reminds of intense moments, deep in a session, when the mistress looks into my eyes. Those are the moments when I’m vulnerable, in pain, exposed and unable to hide. The usual protective shell we build around ourselves has been stripped away, and the mistress can look into me and know me in a way nobody else does.

I found this on the human error tumblr site.

A punch to the face

It’s rare to see a bare fisted punch in femdom pornography. That’s not to say it doesn’t exist, but it’s certainly not as common as slapping or pinching. I’d guess that’s because it’s quite hard to scale gradually. Too soft and it’s not noticeable. Too hard and you could so some serious damage. Not to mention the risk of also hurting the hand of the domme.

I found the image below on the femme fatale tumblr site. There was no background information, but it looked much more like a fashion shot than a porn shot. The magical website tinyeye quickly told me this was the model Rosie Huntington Whiteley, and a bit more digging got me to the entertaining film this image was taken from. It’s an Agent Provocateur advert, and worth checking out if you happen to enjoy gorgeous models with English accents wearing expensive lingerie while tying men up and teasing them. I’m going to guess that covers 99% of my readers.

Mistress Ryo’s Boots

While I like and appreciate a good pair of boots, I don’t fetishize them to the extent that I know some guys do. This pair however, is pretty special. Over the top lacing and then just for good measure, multiple extra buckles around the laces. Anyone licking those spotless is going to have a pretty sore tongue.

This is taken from Ryo’s gallery page on the Mistress Blade site. It’s all in Japanese, so I’ve no idea what most of it means, but there are a lot of nice fetish (rather than femdom) photographs.

Ignorance is bliss

I’m rarely given to guilty introspection about kink. I can look at some pretty weird stuff (for example this or this) and be happy to enjoy it in an uncomplicated manner. I don’t tend to try and analyze if liking it is weird or what it suggests about my internal mental health. But occasional an image or video will catch me off-guard and I find myself saying “hmmm, you’re weird”.

This image is a case in point. It’s pretty straightforward. No extreme bondage, heavy S&M or consumption of strange substances. Just a man performing oral sex while the woman casually flips through a magazine. What makes it an exciting image is the fact she’s ignoring him. A very intimate act has been reduced to a servicing function. He’s not only objectified, but he’s even become an object she’s not that interested in. So in looking at this I’m getting turned on by somebody paying no attention to somebody else. Weird.

I found this on the ‘call me Miss‘ tumblr site, although obviously from the watermark it’s originally from the bitches-feet site.

Added Wired Pussy to Femdom Sites

As the title says, I’ve added Kink.com’s Wired Pussy site to the femdom site page.

Compared to the usual images I post, this one is a little more femsub focused rather than femdom . I think that’s Isis Love lurking in the background with an ErosTek unit, but it was the beautiful bondage rigging around the submissive that really caught my eye.

Mistress Cheyenne

I noticed on this post over at ‘The Hang‘, that Mistress Cheyenne had commented that her days in front of the camera for clubdom are long since over. That’s a great shame as she was always a very enjoyable domme to watch in action. I remember her being particularly vicious to her slaves balls, so the image below seems a suitable one to commemorate her work with. The humbler and the cane stripes across the ass must have been painful, but if you look closely you can see a stripe across the balls, and that must have been agony.

Fortunately her site, clubdom is still very much alive, with her working behind the camera. So hopefully her fine sense of sadism will be carried forward into the future.

Human Pets (part 3)

Just for a change, a little femdom/femsub material.

Unlike the idea of being a caged indoor pet, the concept of being a pony never does a lot for me. I suspect that’s because pony play implies the idea of work. Hard work. Pulling buggies. Offering rides. Trotting around fields. I find it tough to fetishize anything that involves me doing a lot of manual labor. *

However, I decided to post this anyway. Partly because I think the pony boots and the bit gag are sexy. But mostly because it features Ashley Renee. She was one of the first bondage models I saw online and I’ve always had a soft spot for her (probably not the most appropriate expression in this case). She always looks great in a gag. I found this on human pony tumblr site, but it’s obviously originally from Ashley’s own site.

* On the off-chance that readers are now picturing me a short fat nerd aghast at the thought of physical work, I feel I should point out I’m a skinny 5’10”. If you want to whip me that’s great. Just don’t expect to pull anything at the same time. I’ll hire you a truck if stuff needs moving.

Paddles and Straps

This is Mistress Katya showing off her collection of paddles and straps, with a look that manages to be both serious and sensual.

She’s a pro-domme based in NYC. Her main site with a session information is available here. This was taken from her free galleries page.

An unusual participant

I’ve always been a fan of Madame Loreen’s work at OWK. She manages to blend elegance and sadism to excellent effect. I’ve got an old VHS tape of her movie ‘The Revenge’ lurking around in a drawer somewhere that was a longtime favorite for its caning and whipping scenes.

However, as I’ve posted before, she occasionally features in some slightly less than conventional shots. I’m not exactly sure what the animal in the image below is, or why she has it, or what she plans to do with it. I’m guessing that it’s just a pet that the photographer happened to snap her with between scenes. But this is definitely one of the more curious femdom images I’ve come across. Maybe she’s a nihilist?

If you’re interested in seeing more of Madame Loreen in slightly more conventional scenes, the OWK cinema site has a collection of her movies.

Ruined Orgasms

The ‘milk that cock’ tumblr site has an interesting post categorizing the different ways to ruin the male orgasm. I’d always been aware of the common technique where all stimulation is removed just past the point of no return. But I hadn’t realized there was a taxonomy of different techniques. For example:

Squelching: An alternative technique for blocking the flow of semen, accomplished by squeezing the tip of the penis very tightly just as it tries to expel the semen.

There’s something very deliciously evil about ruining an orgasm. Taking that one perfect moment away and destroying it. Giving someone hope, and that just at the moment they’re most helpless, snatching it away. Wonderful.

The tumblr post include a link to Taylor Teases guide to ruined orgasms. The site is a bit of mess with way too much happening on each page, but there’s some fun embedded video clips showing some of the techniques in action, so it’s worth browsing around.

Another good source for ruined orgasm porn is Mayas Handjobs. She’s very skilled at slow teasing, and has a significant number of clips that finish with the abandonment technique. It’s a clips store site, so you can purchase clips individually. These strangely hypnotic animated gifs show her in action, or I guess I should say, deliberate inaction.