Hardcore

An important lesson to learn early in any kinky journey is that no matter how hardcore you think your activity is, somewhere out there, somebody is doing a far more extreme version. I think learning that can temper the initial inclination to always keep pushing limits. It becomes more about finding the right limits for you, rather than thinking you can become baddest kinky motherfucker in the world.

What brought all this to mind was some tweets from Ron, one of the main people at Team Rinryu aka Yapoo. Longterm readers or those who enjoy more extreme femdom content will know that name. They feature human toilets, heavy whippings and beatdowns that can make you wince. Personally, I’m a fan. That might be clear from how often I’ve featured them here in the past (e.g. here, here, here, etc.)

It’s pretty obvious that filming for them must be intense. However, I hadn’t realized how extreme they can get. Some of their movies feature a man kept in a cage and brought out for ‘playtime’ each day. According to this twitter thread from Ron, he actually did stay in the cage for 2 weeks, being brought out each day to be beaten and fed the domme’s piss and shit. Nutritional supplements were the only additional food that kept him alive. Incredibly, that wasn’t even the record. He cites two other men who were caged under similar conditions for 3 months and 9 months!

The only bit of movie fakery was the fact that in his case the cage was resin. He’s claustrophobic and a cage he couldn’t ultimately break would have triggered that. The men who made it for months didn’t even have that mental escape hole and used real cages. Mind blowing.

I like this shot from Team Rinryu because of  how sweet and innocent the domme looks. But you just know from the context, set-up and open mouth that some serious shit is about to go down. Pun definitely intended.

Piss Boy Government

Bacchus over at Eros Blog shared an entertaining post on the lack of kink awareness at a punk bar. Apparently the indie musician Jessilyn was playing her song ‘Piss Boy Government’ and that confused a couple of the attendees. They needed to go lookup what a Piss Boy might be.

Now, in fairness, I’m not sure I’ve ever hear the term Piss Boy to describe a male submissive into golden showers. And I say that as a male submissive who loves a golden shower. It’s just not a common kinky term. However, I suspect if this blogs audience heard the term at a punk club, they could probably take a pretty good guess at the meaning.

Bacchus illustrated his post with some fine artwork by Namio Harukawa. That’s an excellent choice as he was a great illustrator of watersports scenes. I’m going to go with a slightly more modern option. This is  a ‘coffee time’ sketch by Sardax he shared to social media under the title ‘Oubliette’.

Future Plans

After my previous post on the fancy toilet set-up at Studio Black Fun, I had a hunt around for the equipment source. I’m guessing it’s from another German site – Style Fetish. They’ve a great selection of fancy dungeon furniture include a variety of toilets with clear Perspex bowls.  That’s pretty unique and not something I’ve seen in any US playspace.

I’ve often thought about creating a playspace and equipping it with cool and unusual furniture. There are some good spaces in the US, but they all tend to have similar equipment. There are a few exceptions – Mistress Tess springs to mind – but they are few and far between. I plan to retire from the tech world in a year or two, so I’ll need some new projects.  Maybe building out a space with a lot of fancy bondage furniture is the answer.

Until that time I guess I’ll have to be content scouring the web for ideas. Here’s another shot of that set-up from Studio Black Fun, this time with Goddess Kara and Mistress Honey Punch.

Natursekt

I’m debating learning German. Not because I’m planning to move there – although getting away from the US seems like an increasingly good idea – but because of the amazing dommes and playspaces there. I feel an extended trip might be called for in the coming years. Plus, it’s a very sexy language to be yelled at with.

The images below are one of the best toilet set-ups I’ve seen, from both an aesthetic and kink perspective. They were shared by Toronto’s Mistress Violet Mays but I believe they’re from Studio Black Fun in Leipzig. They have some amazing spaces for play.

Toshio Saeki

Continuing the theme of Japanese artists, this emotive scene is by the illustrator Toshio Saeki. I say emotive, as I can’t imagine it provoking a neutral reaction. There’s a lot going on and any number of scenarios and dynamics that the viewer can project into it. It really works for me, but YMMV.

I’ve featured Toshio Saeki in a past post, but I think it was lost in the big blog blow up from a couple of years ago. His work is kinky, explicit and often extreme. Sadly, only a small fraction is femdom.

Commitment

The shot below is from Team Rinryu, the folks behind the Yapoo Market series. Those that have seen their videos, follow their Twitter or read my previous posts on them (for example here, here or here) will know they do some pretty extreme content. Toilet play and scat often features prominently.

The thing that always surprises / impresses me about shots like the one below isn’t the poop and pee consumption. I totally get the appeal there. That’s objectification, intimacy and humiliation all wrapped into one crazy kink. The bit that impresses me is the multiple dommes being around while it’s happening. People don’t normally mind the smell of their own shit. And for the guy on the receiving end, disgust and nastiness is a key part of the kink. But how about having to sit around watching someone else do the pooping? Imagine being fourth or fifth domme in the line and having to keep the scene going while everyone is evacuating their bowels in front of you.  That’s real commitment to shooting content.

Image was sourced via this tweet. If their content intrigues you but you don’t speak Japanese, they do have instructions for foreign buyers on their site.

The Temptation of the Taboo

The title of this Aero article isn’t great: Why You May Not Be as Kinky As You Think. I’m pretty certain that after several decades of exploring my kinky nooks and crannies, I’m exactly as kinky as I think. However, it does contain a few interesting snippets on the appeal of the taboo. The author researched the correlation between sexual fantasies and political affiliations…

I found that Democrats reported more fantasies featuring BDSM, including forced sex, than did Republicans, for whom power play is not quite so taboo.

Compared to Democrats, Republicans tend to face stronger moral prohibitions against things like non-monogamy and same-sex attraction, which means that fantasising about sex with more than one partner or having gay sex would be taboo. Guess what I found when I looked at Republicans’ sexual fantasies? Compared to Democrats, Republicans reported more fantasies about all kinds of non-monogamy, including infidelity, swinging, orgies and cuckolding…

That shouldn’t be too surprising for anyone who keeps an eye out for political scandals. You can be sure when a politician starts banging on about sexual matters they’re either cynically using it to distract from some other heinous shit they’re trying to pull or they’re heavily projecting their own desires and insecurities onto others. Often it’s both scenarios at once.

On the topic of taboo, here’s a particularly strong one that I’m always drawn to.

This is of course from Yapoo Market (specifically this tweet). It looks like an illustration either inspired by or the inspiration for this scene.

Taking It Literally

I was planning to post some follow-up thoughts to my last post, but the night is late and time has run short. Instead, consider this post as a humorous intermission between serious musing. It features a couple who really decided to run with the golden shower concept. I suspect that – as is always the way with makeshift outdoor showers – the warm ‘water’ will run out before he can soap off properly.

I’ve no idea where this is from. Reverse image search doesn’t link to anything useful sadly.

Porta Potty

While I’m on the theme of playspaces, here’s a particularly unique example from the yapoo folk. As far as I can tell from the images, it’s a toilet set-up inside a van. That’s certainly one way to get rid of your new car smell.

I’m intrigued to know who thought this up. Was it the sub? Were they thinking – ‘Getting pooped on is great, but you know what’d make it really hot? Doing it in traffic.’ Or was it a domme? Did they wait in line for a club bathroom one too many times and decide they’d create their own they could park outside? And can you valet it? If so, I hope they at least remember to crack a window.

Image sourced via this tweet. You can see more shots from the scene on the Yapoo site.

Problem Solver

A few posts back I wrote that “…watching dommes creatively problem solve and experiment on me in realtime is hot AF.” Thanks to a recent blog post by Bastienne Cross, I’d also now add that reading about them doing kinky problem solving to craft compelling sessions is also pretty damn hot.

Before I go further and actually provide the post link, I should add that the kinky session in question is a full toilet one. There’s no explicit detail or pictures, but if the very thought of that squicks you out, then it’s probably best avoided. For everyone else, the post in question is here. It provides the backstory to the unusual toilet design that I featured in this previous post. I’m guessing the ‘Panda’ of the original scene is also who commented on that post.

I never thought I’d find myself impressed by someone coming up with creative and thoughtful ways to literally crap on people, but here we are. Life can lead you in odd directions at times.

This is the creative domme in question – Toronto based Bastienne Cross. Should scat play not be your thing, she has a pretty wide variety of other interests.